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Adventurer's Guide

Dating NPC

Last Edited on : Nov 5, 2024, 16:18 (UTC)
 
During your conversations with NPCs around the world of Black Desert you might have seen an option to gift them items... What is this option for? Having a high Amity level with an NPC and gifting them their favorite items can earn you their love for a short period of time. Shall we jump together in the seas of love to discover all the secrets from the Dating NPC system?
 

Which NPCs can you date?

 
NPC Name Location
Crio Fish Vendor of Velia
Eileen General Goods Vendor of Velia
Valks Trina Knights Master of Calpheon City
Bahar Trade Manager of Velia
Brego Williar Delphe Knights Captain of Delphe Knights Castle
Leona Elionian Priest of Calpheon City
Richter Trade Manager of Trent
Grace Lauren Valley Lily Inn Owner of Heidel
Elina Leight     Kalis Councilor (Leight Family) of Calpheon City
Isobelle Encarotia Calpheon-Xian Alliance of Heidel
Dominic Erne Kalis Councilor (Erne Family) of Calpheon City
Santo Manzi Work Supervisor of Velia
Annolisa Rosie Calpheon College Librarian of Calpheon City
Luwensley Weapon Management of Longleaf Tree Sentry Post
Ornella Arms Dealer of Heidel
 

Building up Amity with your favorite NPC

First things first. You will need to build up enough Amity with the NPC by gifting the NPC their favorite items. Each NPC has different favorite items, and these will be shown in the main interface. Each time you gift an item to the NPC, your Energy will decrease 5 points. When Amity reaches 1,000 points, the option "Confess your feelings" will become available.
 
 
IMPORTANT
• You can gift any items to the NPC, but their favorites will grant more Amity points.
• Keep in mind that NPCs will deny items that are too expensive (50 million Silver price in the Central Market).
• You can also increase their Amity using the Conversation Amity minigame.
 

◈ Items available to gift to NPCs

NPC Name Favorite Items
Crio King Clam Wall Ornament Dried Swiri Haystack Organic Feed Fisher's Elixir
Eileen Essence of Nature Serendia Traditional Alchemy Tool Clown's Blood Oil of the Abyss
Santo Manzi Cold Draft Beer Supreme Tough Hide Full-bodied Exotic Herbal Wine Elixir of Will Giant Fish Bone
Bahar Whale Tendon Potion Small Leather Elephant Armor Red Sheep Hide Cushion Manshaum Voodoo Doll Muskan's Bloody Steel Helmet
Grace Lauren Blood Ruby Bheg's Shining Helmet Ancient Relic Crystal Shard Whale Tendon Elixir Blue Whale Oil
Isobelle Encarotia Star Diamond Gold Topaz Ocean Sapphire Forest Emerald Oil of Regeneration
Ornella Cooking Honey Rocaba Armor Diamond Necklace of Fortitude Destruction Spirit Stone -
Valks Magic Crystal of Infinity - Armor Iron Ingot Lead Ingot Copper Ingot Tin Ingot
Dominic Erne Glorious Golden Hand Elixir Luscious Fruit Wine Pure Vanadium Crystal Pure Gold Crystal Forbidden Book
Elina Leight Skilled Worker's Elixir Fishing Boat Cargo Container of Abundance Fishing Boat Prow of Abundance Fishing Boat Decoration of Abundance Part for Explorer's Compass
Leona Fruit of Nature Essence of Nature Tea With Fine Scent Violet Flower Plate of Assorted Fruits
Annolisa Rosie Silk Silk Thread Flax Fabric Wool Supreme Lightweight Plume
Brego Williar Pure Titanium Crystal Strong Resurrection Elixir Surging Energy Elixir Elixir of Sharp Resistance Elixir of Strong Life
Rikta Trade Wagon Wheel Trade Wagon Cover Trade Wagon Flag Trade Wagon Badge Magic Lumbering Axe
Luwensley Scroll Written in Ancient Language Elixir of Clear Mentality Surging Energy Elixir Life Spirit Stone Essence of Nature
 

Await for your lover's response...

Once you confess your feelings to the NPC, you will need to wait until the next maintenance to discover if the feeling is mutual. The answer of the NPC will be found in your in-game mail (B) after the weekly maintenance.
 
• If the NPC accepts your confession, you will become their lover and earn a special in-game title with a distinct color
- However, your Amity with them will decrease by 10%.
• If you are rejected, you will get nothing back and Amity will decrease by 5%.

Grace Lauren - Acceptance letter
"The world seems so much brighter. The daily mundane life no longer aggravates me. I've been overwhelmed with emotions since the day I saw you. I feel as if nothing in this world can bring me down. I keep imagining what it would be like to be with you. Please make time to see me. I wish to be by your side."
Dominic Erne - Rejection letter
"I think that every action has a price. You confessed to me even while knowing of my status in the Republic. I want to reward your action with a high price. However, I cannot set any high price on your feelings. Because I felt nothing after your daring confession. In other words, I have to reject your feelings. I have too much going on right now. I hope you find someone more suited for you."
 

Sadly, nothing lasts forever

NPC Dating can be enjoyed by all adventurers. Whether you become a couple or not is calculated based on the ratio of "How much Amity you have with that NPC" and "The total Amity of all the adventurers who confessed to that NPC the same week".

So, even if you do not have the highest Amity out of the bunch, you still stand a chance! However, the higher your Amity is with the NPC, the better your chances.

 

Sadly, your newfound relationship may only last a week. Other adventurers can continue confessing, and your lover may choose someone else after the week is over. However, if you hold the highest Amity with that NPC, you will be able to maintain your relationship!

 


What's the purpose of all of this?

• If you succeed in winning 5 NPCs over to accept your confession, you will earn the special in-game title "Flirt".

 

 

• If you succeed in winning 10 NPCs over to accept your confession, you will earn the special in-game title "Heartbreaker".

 

 


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